Bye, bye Facebook

by adam.joinson

As mentioned in the previous post by Tristan, Facebook is facing all kinds of trouble at the moment. I’ve just deactivated my account, and will shift it to deleted in a few weeks (once I have the time to scrape off my contacts). As an early adopter of Facebook, this was a tough decision to make – it’s been a fantastic way to reconnect with old friends, make some new ones, and to share news, photos and ideas. But, recent events have made it obvious that the benefits no longer outweigh the costs. In particular, the shift to public ‘pages’ and the searchable status updates, alongside the recently announced ‘open social’ approach to sharing friends’ data with external web sites has made it almost impossible (in some cases actually impossible) to control the leakage of information across Internet sites that I as a user have not consented to give my information to.

As a user, there are a number of choices available to us when faced with these decisions. One is to just walk away, and leave a moribund account. The problem here is that information is still leaked. Option two is to delete information in the profile, and replace with either fake information or no information at all. This obviously has downsides for Facebook since much of their USP is the wealth of relatively accurate information available for marketing types. But, for users there’s a downside too – for us, the USP of Facebook was about connecting with people we had a connection to in ‘real life’ – so, once we attempt to achieve privacy through obfuscation or deception, the actual utility of the site is also reduced for us. So, it’s a loss-loss situation. That leave the final option – deletion or deactivation – the route I chose.

I’ve researched how people use Facebook (relatively) extensively (e.g. this paper) – and one of the core lessons from the more recent work is that it only works if people can protect their privacy via the site, rather than via their actions. When they don’t do it through the site (whether because it’s too complicated, or not possible, or they don’t trust the settings), then they’ll do it through their actions. In the cases I looked at, this was by engaging with the site in a more shallow way. But, if this isn’t feasible, then the only option left is to quit. The management of Facebook (in particular the CEO) seem to have forgotten that if our private spaces are made public, there’s really not much chance that we’ll ‘dance like there’s no-one looking’ – instead we’ll become self-conscious, awkward, and eventually sit down in a corner looking a little embarrassed. My version of that is retreating to a locked Twitter account…

5 Responses to “Bye, bye Facebook”

  1. Brian Routh Says:

    I don’t understand what the big deal is….you sound very paranoid…..for someone who appears to be some sort of expert on internet psychology I find your fears to be very disappointing and it seems that you are creating a lot of false panic in the streets…..maybe your expectations about a free social network are just way too high…..even though you have explained it all and I have read many other accounts of people throwing their arms up in fear, I still dont see what you are all raving about. I can interact with my friends, share my art, movies and photos and still keep what I don’t want made public to myself and off facebook…..My email is a yahoo account which I use only for facebook…I only share everything on my account with friends only as per the settings….as for trying to match me up with companies peddling their goods by giving them this email account I don’t have a problem with that….

  2. Patricia Wells Says:

    Dear Adam,
    Sorry to see you go for a variety of reasons. I’m sorry because I was actually one of your “friends” on Facebook and I enjoyed your wit and insightful posts. But I am also sorry and disapointed to see you go and spread what I see as a meme of hysteria regarding Facebook. You are rightfully considered one of the leading experts of Facebook use and yet I would argue that your opinion is biased by this meme.

  3. Brian Routh Says:

    http://mashable.com/2010/05/16/in-defense-of-facebook/

  4. Brian Routh Says:

    http://lifehacker.com/5538697/

  5. Brian Routh Says:

    article with instructions on how to lock your FB account down completely:
    http://lifehacker.com/5538697/